they must be atleast 18 and have the dob, just the month and year is fine, on their profile. It is on the com info page so if they have read that then they know we are looking for it. Do not hunt for it. You can leave them a comment on a recent post if you like but it isn't a must. *g* My e-mail is burningchaos@aol.com if you have any more questions. Feel free to ask away =) also added.